Do Pets Miss Us? Supporting Shoreline Pets During Back-to-School

August 07, 2025
By: Adriana Valle

Back-to-school season brings a lot of change, not just for the kids but for pets as well. Whether young children are leaving for class or college-age kids are moving out or heading back to campus, these transitions can impact pets physically, mentally, and emotionally. Understanding these effects and supporting Shoreline pets during back-to-school helps keep them happy and healthy.

back to school in the CT ShorelineDo Pets Miss Us?

Let’s start by consider a question I get often: do pets miss us? Yes, pets absolutely miss family members when they are gone. Dogs and cats form strong social bonds with us. They are also sensitive to changes in their social/familial environment. This article shares 15 ways you can tell if your pet species is missing you. For cats and dogs, their wanting to be around you, laying near your personal belongings, and being excited at your return are all signs your pet has been missing you.

When kids leave for college or return to school, pets often feel their absence, sometimes showing distress or behavioral changes. However, pets vary: some might appreciate a quieter home and show relief from summer activity hustle, while others struggle with the change. Of course, a pet’s age, health, and experience with transitions will impact their reaction to change.

cat with a younger person in the CT ShorelineHow Back-to-School Affects Pets Physically

Pets often experience changes in their daily exercise, potty, and feeding routines when schedules shift during back to school time. For instance, with kids gone or busier, pets may get less outdoor play or walk time, leading to pent-up energy, restlessness, or indoor messes.

Adjusting walk times to align with new family schedules and ensuring regular physical activity, like morning walks for dogs or interactive play for cats, are important to prevent boredom and behavioral issues. Maintaining feeding schedules consistent with the new routine also provides comfort and stability.

dog lying on floor in the CT ShorelineHow Back-to-School Affects Pets Mentally

Pets thrive on routine and mental stimulation. Sudden changes can lead to confusion and stress. Gradual adjustment to longer alone times by practicing short absences before school starts can reduce anxiety caused by this transition. Toys that challenge pets, such as treat-dispensing puzzles, can also help keep their minds engaged when family members aren’t around as much. Providing safe spaces with familiar smells or calming pheromone products also supports mental well-being.

How Back-to-School Affects Pets Emotionally

Many pets experience feelings similar to separation anxiety or depression when beloved family members, especially children they bond with, leave for school or college. They may show signs such as whining, destructive behavior, excessive following, or withdrawal. Pets definitely miss the companionship and changes in household activity can leave them feeling lonely or confused. Offering extra affection upon return, keeping background noise like music or TV on, and creating comforting environments help ease emotional stress.

dog walking with a dog walker in the CT ShorelineSupporting Shoreline Pets During Back-to-School

To help pets through these transitions:

  • Gradually adjust routines before school starts, easing them into new schedules
  • Keep exercise and playtime consistent and engaging, helping pets burn energy and stay happy
  • Provide comforting spaces with familiar items and consider calming aids like pheromone diffusers
  • Use toys and treats to distract pets and reduce anxiety when alone
  • Offer extra love and attention when returning home to reassure pets

Hiring a Dog Walker of Pet Sitter

If time is tight during the busy school season, consider hiring a dog walker or pet sitter. At Shoreline Happy Paws, we ensure pets get the physical activity, mental stimulation, and companionship they need. Bringing in help from a pet care professional can prevent issues like destructive behavior and anxiety caused by reduced interaction and help keep pets healthy and content during the family’s schedule changes. Plus, our dog walkers and pet sitters provide peace of mind to busy pet parents and families who hate to leave their pets behind for work and/or school.

The Best Care for Pets in the Connecticut Shoreline

Supporting pets thoughtfully through back to school transitions helps them stay balanced and connected, even when the kids aren’t home as much. While they’re only temporary or minor in our eyes, these changes can really affect our pets. It’s up to us to make it easier on them, especially if we want to ward off unwanted behaviors!

Shoreline Happy Paws is currently accepting new clients for dog walking, dog hiking, and cat sitting services! New Shoreline Happy Paws clients can create an account. We will be in touch to further discuss your needs and set you, your family, and your cat(s) up for success. Existing clients, please book services by logging in to your client profile.

We serve the following areas of the Connecticut Shoreline:

  • Old Saybrook
  • Essex, Ivoryton & Centerbrook
  • Deep River
  • Chester
  • Westbrook
  • Clinton
  • Old Lyme
  • East Lyme
  • Niantic

Certain Parts and Certain Service Hours in:

  • Lyme and Madison
  • Waterford, New London, Groton
  • Uncasville, Gales Ferry, Mystic, Noank

Adriana Valle

Adriana Valle is the Owner, Founder, and Chief Pet-Loving Officer at Shoreline Happy Paws LLC, where she has led professional pet care since 2010. Her pet care journey started in Doha, Qatar, where she founded the country's first full-time pet sitting service, before relocating to the Connecticut Shoreline in 2017 and rebuilding it into a team-based pet care company trusted by more than 600 local families. Adriana is a Certified Pet First Aid and CPR Instructor, trained through the Pet Safety Crusader curriculum by Denise Fleck, and teaches hands-on Pet CPR and First Aid classes for pet parents throughout the Shoreline. She is currently pursuing a certificate in dog behavior from CATCH Canine Trainers Academy and is a longtime member of the National Association of Professional Pet Sitters and Pet Sitters International. She regularly attends pet industry conferences across the country to stay on the leading edge of professional pet care standards, safety practices, and industry trends. Shoreline Happy Paws is veterinarian recommended and proudly holds a 5-star Google review from Saybrook Veterinary Hospital. Beyond daily pet care, Adriana leads the Shoreline's pet parent community, running social community walks, hikes, and Dog Water Adventures for pet parents across Southeastern Connecticut, along with the CT Pet Parents Facebook community. She also welcomes dogs into her own Essex home through the company's Homestyle Boarding service, and is currently launching the first Doggie Adventure Bus in the CT Shoreline, a group enrichment adventure on wheels. Her love of animals started early, growing up in El Salvador surrounded by eight Boxers and her grandparents' farm animals, and later volunteering with the Qatar Animal Welfare Society caring for rescued strays. A fluent Spanish speaker, she is proud to serve Shoreline families in both English and Spanish. Today she shares her home with her husband Chris, Cannoli the Corgi, and Gnocchi the hedgehog. Adriana has written more than 200 articles on pet care, safety, and pet-friendly living. She posts weekly blogs to ensure that pet parents in the Shoreline and Lower River Valley areas of Southeastern Connecticut stay informed and educated on pet care best practices and pet-friendly living. Her topics range from Shoreline Happy Paws-specific topics, including highlighting the benefits of Dog Walking, Dog Hiking, and Cat Sitting services, to reporting on local shelter changes, wildlife threats, pet industry trends, and other current events.

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